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		<title>By: What is the most powerful and influential ideology in modern day North America? - Quora</title>
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		<dc:creator>What is the most powerful and influential ideology in modern day North America? - Quora</dc:creator>
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		<description>[...] PeopleComment&#160;&#160;Anon User Optimism.Yes, it is an ism.See Barbara Ehrenreich, Bright-Sided.http://www.ribbonfarm.com/2010/0...This answer .Please specify the necessary improvements.&#160;Edit Link Text Show answer summary [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Why do self-help books sell so well, if they mostly don&#039;t work? - Quora</title>
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		<dc:creator>Why do self-help books sell so well, if they mostly don&#039;t work? - Quora</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Dec 2010 03:17:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] and reviews the history and evolution of the field carefully:Bright-Sided by Barbara Ehrenreich: http://www.ribbonfarm.com/2010/0...I&#039;d say about 85-90% of the literature is of the type she talks about and deconstructs.Insert a [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] and reviews the history and evolution of the field carefully:Bright-Sided by Barbara Ehrenreich: <a href="http://www.ribbonfarm.com/2010/0...I&#039;d" rel="nofollow">http://www.ribbonfarm.com/2010/0&#8230;I&#039;d</a> say about 85-90% of the literature is of the type she talks about and deconstructs.Insert a [...]</p>
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		<title>By: bngarden</title>
		<link>http://www.ribbonfarm.com/2010/02/09/bright-sided-by-barbara-ehrenreich/#comment-4977</link>
		<dc:creator>bngarden</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jun 2010 16:52:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For reference re what is and why is positive psychology from the academic perspective, this is a useful summary:
http://www.changeforchildren.co.uk/uploads/positive-psychology-what-and-how.pdf</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For reference re what is and why is positive psychology from the academic perspective, this is a useful summary:<br />
<a href="http://www.changeforchildren.co.uk/uploads/positive-psychology-what-and-how.pdf" rel="nofollow">http://www.changeforchildren.co.uk/uploads/positive-psychology-what-and-how.pdf</a></p>
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		<title>By: Josh W</title>
		<link>http://www.ribbonfarm.com/2010/02/09/bright-sided-by-barbara-ehrenreich/#comment-4190</link>
		<dc:creator>Josh W</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Feb 2010 21:21:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This reminds me of this song:
http://www.last.fm/music/Imogen+Heap/_/Hide+and+Seek

mainly for the reaction to positive thinking being used against you, but don&#039;t click the link too rigidly focused on this topic because it&#039;s a brilliant song in it&#039;s own right.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This reminds me of this song:<br />
<a href="http://www.last.fm/music/Imogen+Heap/_/Hide+and+Seek" rel="nofollow">http://www.last.fm/music/Imogen+Heap/_/Hide+and+Seek</a></p>
<p>mainly for the reaction to positive thinking being used against you, but don&#8217;t click the link too rigidly focused on this topic because it&#8217;s a brilliant song in it&#8217;s own right.</p>
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		<title>By: Ben Hyde</title>
		<link>http://www.ribbonfarm.com/2010/02/09/bright-sided-by-barbara-ehrenreich/#comment-4175</link>
		<dc:creator>Ben Hyde</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 14:08:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ironic, yes indeed.  In other humorous insights we can point out the mnemonic for Bright-Siding is BS.

But to change the subject a bit.  BS is offensive in large part because it used by the more fortunate against the less.  The Left has a lot of tools for picking that kind of thing apart.  It seems to me the Right has fewer.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ironic, yes indeed.  In other humorous insights we can point out the mnemonic for Bright-Siding is BS.</p>
<p>But to change the subject a bit.  BS is offensive in large part because it used by the more fortunate against the less.  The Left has a lot of tools for picking that kind of thing apart.  It seems to me the Right has fewer.</p>
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		<title>By: Venkat</title>
		<link>http://www.ribbonfarm.com/2010/02/09/bright-sided-by-barbara-ehrenreich/#comment-4170</link>
		<dc:creator>Venkat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 16:05:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ben -- you are actually pointing out quite an irony here (and I am not quite sure what to say about it). Even insisting on rational discourse without polarizing rhetoric is perhaps a mild form of enforcing positive thinking. But since &#039;rational&#039; (by my own possibly irrational definition) is the only way I and a lot of people can process issues, the best we can then do is to take a clinical view of emotional/angry raising of such issues as data. This means dealing with the content of this book as you would the complaining of a baby. It may not be coherent, but it is up to the parent to infer the coherent complaint together and respond appropriately.

This bothers me. It suggests that pain etc. requires the more fortunate among us to treat the less fortunate like children rather than equal adults. My anti-paternalism instincts scream... I see no closure on this.

Farhat: re: MLM, Amway is also treated to a skewering in the book :)

Xianhang: you seem to be describing quality of basic existence/survival conditions. I think this conversation is largely at higher levels of the Maslow pyramid where &lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Relative_deprivation&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;relative deprivation operates&lt;/a&gt; rather than absolute well-being variables. I have some posts cued up that explore what you are bringing up, in greater detail.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ben &#8212; you are actually pointing out quite an irony here (and I am not quite sure what to say about it). Even insisting on rational discourse without polarizing rhetoric is perhaps a mild form of enforcing positive thinking. But since &#8216;rational&#8217; (by my own possibly irrational definition) is the only way I and a lot of people can process issues, the best we can then do is to take a clinical view of emotional/angry raising of such issues as data. This means dealing with the content of this book as you would the complaining of a baby. It may not be coherent, but it is up to the parent to infer the coherent complaint together and respond appropriately.</p>
<p>This bothers me. It suggests that pain etc. requires the more fortunate among us to treat the less fortunate like children rather than equal adults. My anti-paternalism instincts scream&#8230; I see no closure on this.</p>
<p>Farhat: re: MLM, Amway is also treated to a skewering in the book <img src='http://www.ribbonfarm.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Xianhang: you seem to be describing quality of basic existence/survival conditions. I think this conversation is largely at higher levels of the Maslow pyramid where <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Relative_deprivation" rel="nofollow">relative deprivation operates</a> rather than absolute well-being variables. I have some posts cued up that explore what you are bringing up, in greater detail.</p>
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		<title>By: Ben Hyde</title>
		<link>http://www.ribbonfarm.com/2010/02/09/bright-sided-by-barbara-ehrenreich/#comment-4169</link>
		<dc:creator>Ben Hyde</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 15:36:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>But then isn&#039;t there something a bit bloodless about a lack of empathy for the violence done by Bright-Siding practitioners?  I don&#039;t know quite what I&#039;m after here...  Ehrenreich manifests an angry emotionally charged persona.   The desiccated rules of the road for rational discourse demand that such behavior be sanctioned.  But you know?  In this case it&#039;s not exactly clear to me how else to respond to the vile practice of pretending to help those who are suffering by instructing them to not just shut up but to enjoy it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>But then isn&#8217;t there something a bit bloodless about a lack of empathy for the violence done by Bright-Siding practitioners?  I don&#8217;t know quite what I&#8217;m after here&#8230;  Ehrenreich manifests an angry emotionally charged persona.   The desiccated rules of the road for rational discourse demand that such behavior be sanctioned.  But you know?  In this case it&#8217;s not exactly clear to me how else to respond to the vile practice of pretending to help those who are suffering by instructing them to not just shut up but to enjoy it.</p>
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		<title>By: Farhat</title>
		<link>http://www.ribbonfarm.com/2010/02/09/bright-sided-by-barbara-ehrenreich/#comment-4167</link>
		<dc:creator>Farhat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 11:42:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice review. I think it is considerably more painful to read something that you largely agree with but the person makes bad arguments for it than to read something that you disagree with. This is why several of Penn and Teller&#039;s &lt;i&gt;Bullshit!&lt;/i&gt; shows made me cringe. Coming to the book, I haven&#039;t read it but I also think in the US there is a major component of lack of critical thinking skills that lead people toward the kind of hucksterism that positive thinking gurus espouse. Critical thinking seems to be quite under-emphasized in the American school system and it seems to be getting worse. 

When I was first confronted with the load of crap called multi-level-marketing, my first thought was how does the cash flow work out in the system. Amazingly when I asked the guy about it he said I was engaging in &#039;stinking thinking&#039; and that reduces the likelihood of making things work. I should just have faith that things will work and give them a try. Since my mind doesn&#039;t work that way I suggested he find other victims and we part ways.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice review. I think it is considerably more painful to read something that you largely agree with but the person makes bad arguments for it than to read something that you disagree with. This is why several of Penn and Teller&#8217;s <i>Bullshit!</i> shows made me cringe. Coming to the book, I haven&#8217;t read it but I also think in the US there is a major component of lack of critical thinking skills that lead people toward the kind of hucksterism that positive thinking gurus espouse. Critical thinking seems to be quite under-emphasized in the American school system and it seems to be getting worse. </p>
<p>When I was first confronted with the load of crap called multi-level-marketing, my first thought was how does the cash flow work out in the system. Amazingly when I asked the guy about it he said I was engaging in &#8216;stinking thinking&#8217; and that reduces the likelihood of making things work. I should just have faith that things will work and give them a try. Since my mind doesn&#8217;t work that way I suggested he find other victims and we part ways.</p>
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		<title>By: Xianhang Zhang</title>
		<link>http://www.ribbonfarm.com/2010/02/09/bright-sided-by-barbara-ehrenreich/#comment-4164</link>
		<dc:creator>Xianhang Zhang</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 01:16:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Venkat: re: spectacular success, as far as gross economic figures go, it&#039;s hard to find many places on earth that are not the best they&#039;ve ever been in the last 1000 years. Life expectancy, access to calories, infant mortality, likelihood of dying in war, rights of women etc.

IMO, to claim otherwise is to have a blinkered view of history.

Now on more qualitative issues like happiness, there&#039;s more room to quibble.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Venkat: re: spectacular success, as far as gross economic figures go, it&#8217;s hard to find many places on earth that are not the best they&#8217;ve ever been in the last 1000 years. Life expectancy, access to calories, infant mortality, likelihood of dying in war, rights of women etc.</p>
<p>IMO, to claim otherwise is to have a blinkered view of history.</p>
<p>Now on more qualitative issues like happiness, there&#8217;s more room to quibble.</p>
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		<title>By: Venkat</title>
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		<dc:creator>Venkat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 19:59:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Xianhang: I agree with your folk theory. Both negative and positive thinking can be addictive, just like exercising a particular muscle can get addictive (the &#039;runner&#039;s high&#039; can lead to addictive behavior in long-time runners for instance).

Re: your second point about affluence, I&#039;d say it is partially correct. The &#039;spectacular success&#039; has been less about success per se, and more about nicely isolating the people who enjoy the benefits from those who must pay the costs (direct economic as well as social costs/externalities). It used to be slavery/mercantilism and colonialism. Now it is a more basic out-of-sight-out-of-mind  impact on hidden third world economies, the poor etc. 

I think where I part ways with Ehrenreich in reacting to these realities is that I don&#039;t think the left-liberal approach to solving these problems will work. Corporations have to be part of the solution, not blackballed as the &#039;problem.&#039; Corporatism is actually value-agnostic, and if you can bring hidden costs into the cash economy, the market will accommodate those costs. After all, industry did move away from slave labor and reorganize around new models once the social costs were put into the equations.

The junk food analogy and the mental/physical obesity idea... you read my mind. I&#039;ve thought of that exact metaphor as well.

Ben:  I guess I am not always happy about people knowingly playing fast and loose with truths to gain the rhetorical upper hand and influence those who can&#039;t be influenced by honest arguments. 

But I suppose there are people who won&#039;t get it without the &#039;activist&#039; mode of influence. On both sides of the political fence.
Venkat</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Xianhang: I agree with your folk theory. Both negative and positive thinking can be addictive, just like exercising a particular muscle can get addictive (the &#8216;runner&#8217;s high&#8217; can lead to addictive behavior in long-time runners for instance).</p>
<p>Re: your second point about affluence, I&#8217;d say it is partially correct. The &#8216;spectacular success&#8217; has been less about success per se, and more about nicely isolating the people who enjoy the benefits from those who must pay the costs (direct economic as well as social costs/externalities). It used to be slavery/mercantilism and colonialism. Now it is a more basic out-of-sight-out-of-mind  impact on hidden third world economies, the poor etc. </p>
<p>I think where I part ways with Ehrenreich in reacting to these realities is that I don&#8217;t think the left-liberal approach to solving these problems will work. Corporations have to be part of the solution, not blackballed as the &#8216;problem.&#8217; Corporatism is actually value-agnostic, and if you can bring hidden costs into the cash economy, the market will accommodate those costs. After all, industry did move away from slave labor and reorganize around new models once the social costs were put into the equations.</p>
<p>The junk food analogy and the mental/physical obesity idea&#8230; you read my mind. I&#8217;ve thought of that exact metaphor as well.</p>
<p>Ben:  I guess I am not always happy about people knowingly playing fast and loose with truths to gain the rhetorical upper hand and influence those who can&#8217;t be influenced by honest arguments. </p>
<p>But I suppose there are people who won&#8217;t get it without the &#8216;activist&#8217; mode of influence. On both sides of the political fence.<br />
Venkat</p>
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		<title>By: Xianhang Zhang</title>
		<link>http://www.ribbonfarm.com/2010/02/09/bright-sided-by-barbara-ehrenreich/#comment-4160</link>
		<dc:creator>Xianhang Zhang</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 15:31:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a folk theory: Thinking unpleasant thoughts is like exercising a muscle. For the untrained person, thinking unpleasant thoughts is something that&#039;s actively painful to do. I&#039;m sure you all know the type of person who would do anything rather than have a frank conversation about death or suffering. But like a muscle, frequently exercising this faculty gradually makes it easier to bear.

Until modern times, nobody but the upper class was ever really overweight. The structure of society made it so that you got sufficient strenuous labor to keep the pounds off. In the same way, your brain also had sufficient exposure to the viciousness of nature not to ever be allowed to not think unpleasant thoughts.

Nowadays, society has become comfortable enough that, if you want to, you can become flabby in both mind &amp; body. For most people, the structure of their lives is such that if they want exercise, they have to consciously choose to do it.

What I&#039;ve also noticed is that different people seem to have different preternatural comfort levels with thinking unpleasant thoughts. One one extreme of the spectrum is people for which it was almost a compulsion to seek to think the most unpleasantest thoughts possible to work that muscle as much as they can. For these people, it&#039;s sometimes hard to imagine that the vast majority of the world doesn&#039;t operate in this fashion.

tldr: positive thinking is mental junk food that makes you fat &amp; happy. We can only afford to indulge in it because of the spectacular success of modern society.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a folk theory: Thinking unpleasant thoughts is like exercising a muscle. For the untrained person, thinking unpleasant thoughts is something that&#8217;s actively painful to do. I&#8217;m sure you all know the type of person who would do anything rather than have a frank conversation about death or suffering. But like a muscle, frequently exercising this faculty gradually makes it easier to bear.</p>
<p>Until modern times, nobody but the upper class was ever really overweight. The structure of society made it so that you got sufficient strenuous labor to keep the pounds off. In the same way, your brain also had sufficient exposure to the viciousness of nature not to ever be allowed to not think unpleasant thoughts.</p>
<p>Nowadays, society has become comfortable enough that, if you want to, you can become flabby in both mind &amp; body. For most people, the structure of their lives is such that if they want exercise, they have to consciously choose to do it.</p>
<p>What I&#8217;ve also noticed is that different people seem to have different preternatural comfort levels with thinking unpleasant thoughts. One one extreme of the spectrum is people for which it was almost a compulsion to seek to think the most unpleasantest thoughts possible to work that muscle as much as they can. For these people, it&#8217;s sometimes hard to imagine that the vast majority of the world doesn&#8217;t operate in this fashion.</p>
<p>tldr: positive thinking is mental junk food that makes you fat &amp; happy. We can only afford to indulge in it because of the spectacular success of modern society.</p>
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		<title>By: Ben Hyde</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ben Hyde</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 14:37:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice.

&quot;literature leaves the naturally skeptical among us doubtful&quot; - i love that!

Ehrenreich is an activist.  Pretty good at that craft actually.  Knowledge work is a different trade.  It&#039;s a fair critique that it&#039;s hard getting at the K when the author is practicing A.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice.</p>
<p>&#8220;literature leaves the naturally skeptical among us doubtful&#8221; &#8211; i love that!</p>
<p>Ehrenreich is an activist.  Pretty good at that craft actually.  Knowledge work is a different trade.  It&#8217;s a fair critique that it&#8217;s hard getting at the K when the author is practicing A.</p>
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		<title>By: abidel</title>
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		<dc:creator>abidel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 06:08:09 +0000</pubDate>
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