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		<title>By: Xanax.</title>
		<link>http://www.ribbonfarm.com/2009/08/12/two-manipulative-ways-to-close-conversations/#comment-4200</link>
		<dc:creator>Xanax.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Feb 2010 00:22:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Xanax....&lt;/strong&gt;

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Xanax&#8230;.</strong></p>
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		<title>By: bd</title>
		<link>http://www.ribbonfarm.com/2009/08/12/two-manipulative-ways-to-close-conversations/#comment-3163</link>
		<dc:creator>bd</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2009 02:11:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting. I generally have this problem with email more than IM. In an email you often reply to or comment on information from the sender&#039;s previous email, and it can be hard to do so without leaving some ambiguity as to whether a response is expected.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting. I generally have this problem with email more than IM. In an email you often reply to or comment on information from the sender&#8217;s previous email, and it can be hard to do so without leaving some ambiguity as to whether a response is expected.</p>
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		<title>By: Stefan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stefan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Aug 2009 05:39:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Schegloffs papers can be downloaded from his archives at
http://www.sscnet.ucla.edu/soc/faculty/schegloff/pubs/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Schegloffs papers can be downloaded from his archives at<br />
<a href="http://www.sscnet.ucla.edu/soc/faculty/schegloff/pubs/" rel="nofollow">http://www.sscnet.ucla.edu/soc/faculty/schegloff/pubs/</a></p>
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		<title>By: Venkat</title>
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		<dc:creator>Venkat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2009 20:46:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awesome, thanks. Was not aware this had been studied academically :) Will definitely read this paper.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awesome, thanks. Was not aware this had been studied academically <img src='http://www.ribbonfarm.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Will definitely read this paper.</p>
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		<title>By: Alex Feinman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alex Feinman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2009 15:20:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This paper might be of interest to you:
http://books.google.com/books?id=PBLAxzupB70C&amp;lpg=PA263&amp;ots=RhZtDDc9dG&amp;dq=%22opening%20up%20closings%22&amp;pg=PA263#v=onepage

It&#039;s about how people initiate the &quot;goodbye&quot; conversation...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This paper might be of interest to you:<br />
<a href="http://books.google.com/books?id=PBLAxzupB70C&amp;lpg=PA263&amp;ots=RhZtDDc9dG&amp;dq=%22opening%20up%20closings%22&amp;pg=PA263#v=onepage" rel="nofollow">http://books.google.com/books?id=PBLAxzupB70C&amp;lpg=PA263&amp;ots=RhZtDDc9dG&amp;dq=%22opening%20up%20closings%22&amp;pg=PA263#v=onepage</a></p>
<p>It&#8217;s about how people initiate the &#8220;goodbye&#8221; conversation&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Venkat</title>
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		<dc:creator>Venkat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2009 11:40:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Heh heh, I&#039;ve shared too many secrets already :)

But I don&#039;t know really.  I would guess it has to do with what you pay attention to and get sensitized to for a long time. Like wine enthusiasts after years being able to tell differences that others can&#039;t detect.

Venkat</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heh heh, I&#8217;ve shared too many secrets already <img src='http://www.ribbonfarm.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>But I don&#8217;t know really.  I would guess it has to do with what you pay attention to and get sensitized to for a long time. Like wine enthusiasts after years being able to tell differences that others can&#8217;t detect.</p>
<p>Venkat</p>
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		<title>By: Manju</title>
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		<dc:creator>Manju</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2009 08:58:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Venkat,

Just let me in on one thing (perhaps a secret:)) that has always made me curious about your thought pattern:
How do you identify these subtleties &amp; then extend these as ideas to work on? Is that how most of the &quot;innovation champs&quot; work? 

How do ideas emerge from the recesses of our minds? Which are the triggers that cause us to think of something and extend it as an abstract, solution, hypotheses etc? Is it really only practice or is there that one extra neuron that results in more engaging thoughts to develop and branch out?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Venkat,</p>
<p>Just let me in on one thing (perhaps a secret:)) that has always made me curious about your thought pattern:<br />
How do you identify these subtleties &amp; then extend these as ideas to work on? Is that how most of the &#8220;innovation champs&#8221; work? </p>
<p>How do ideas emerge from the recesses of our minds? Which are the triggers that cause us to think of something and extend it as an abstract, solution, hypotheses etc? Is it really only practice or is there that one extra neuron that results in more engaging thoughts to develop and branch out?</p>
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		<title>By: India: How To Close Conversations &#124; Kumpulin Info</title>
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		<dc:creator>India: How To Close Conversations &#124; Kumpulin Info</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 23:38:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Bala</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bala</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 23:25:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You never cease to amaze me with some of your observations and thoughts. I usually read something here and go &quot;hmmm, of course&quot;, but had never put the 2 together to realize the significance. Another brilliant piece. And concise too. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You never cease to amaze me with some of your observations and thoughts. I usually read something here and go &#8220;hmmm, of course&#8221;, but had never put the 2 together to realize the significance. Another brilliant piece. And concise too. <img src='http://www.ribbonfarm.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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